A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” - John 13:34-35
We as Christians are really good at looking at and point out other people's sins, but quietly neglecting our own mess. I get it, it's really easy to see other people's issues....but here is the issue, God's called you and I to do something with each other, and it's not to rip each other apart. We've all fallen short. My sin is no better or worse than your sin. We need to come along side each other and love another and as a result of that happening the world knows WHO we belong to.
We should never be experts on other people's sins and short comings, but rather we should push their strengths.